You Didn’t Imagine It-They Benefited from Your Insecurity

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  • Опубликовано: 28 мар 2025
  • They praised you when you were insecure and silent-because it made them feel powerful. You weren’t crazy. You were easier to control when you doubted yourself. But now? You see it. And you’re done shrinking. This is your reminder: you don’t need their validation to take up space. You were never the problem-your power just made them uncomfortable. Watch this if you’re ready to take it all back.
    always remember that
    • before we are anything else, we are first human
    • everybody deserves to be treated with dignity and respect
    • kindness costs nothing :)
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Комментарии • 44

  • @RyukShinyApple
    @RyukShinyApple 6 часов назад +16

    I realized I wanted to be validated and understood by people who didnt even accept and understand themselves

  • @sarahsafespace
    @sarahsafespace Час назад +2

    Exactly! I've finally learned to overcome my insecurities at age 32. You're beautiful Pearl, you remind me of Nina Simone a lot ❤

  • @CreateFuture33
    @CreateFuture33 9 часов назад +19

    Its crazy how almost all of your videos resonates with my life. The people-pleasing tendencies, needing validation, hiding myself, not accepting myself…. And so on. Thank you! The wisdom you carry is remarkable. You are healing my heart and soul. I love how authentic and real you are❤️ endlessly appreciating and actively watching all of your videos . !!!!

    • @pearlieee
      @pearlieee  9 часов назад

      I am so glad they are reaching at the right time! Grateful I can be part of your journey in this small way, wishing you all the best as you continue to uncover yourself💙🫶🏽✨THANK YOU!

  • @fruitypopwhickle6806
    @fruitypopwhickle6806 18 минут назад +1

    Never stop, Pearlieee!❤🙏🏾

  • @sofodachimp2776
    @sofodachimp2776 3 часа назад +3

    I really needed this today. It’s like you just read my life and mind the past week 😅 thank you

  • @susmateja
    @susmateja Час назад +1

    So nice to see this channel grow! I hope there will be a community forming around it, imagine how much better the world would become

  • @B4LUV
    @B4LUV 6 часов назад +1

    You’re my new favourite speaker 🫶🏼

  • @Lovelypastelyellow
    @Lovelypastelyellow 3 часа назад +1

    What you said is what I noticed as well. I'm glad to be able to find someone that I'm able to share perspectives with. I appreciate the talk, hope I meet better people someday..

  • @Bukola.the.creator
    @Bukola.the.creator Час назад

    Amen❤

  • @mankentsileqheku1623
    @mankentsileqheku1623 3 часа назад

    👏👏👏

  • @jupiterresident1537
    @jupiterresident1537 11 часов назад +7

    You explain everything so amazingly. Your channel appeared on my feed just when I needed it. Pearl - you truly are a treasure that I found. Or you found me. Thank you ❤ love from Poland ❤

    • @pearlieee
      @pearlieee  11 часов назад +1

      All my love to you darling! I am so glad this reached you💙💙💙

    • @susmateja
      @susmateja Час назад

      I agree!!

  • @Abundantcreative
    @Abundantcreative 6 часов назад

    Ever since I was young, I've been treated exactly the way you describe in the video. I'm breaking free now!

  • @bishome
    @bishome 5 часов назад

    What a blessing to have stumbled on your channel. These were things I needed to hear that resonates in this journey of healing. Thank you

  • @robbingcars9140
    @robbingcars9140 34 минуты назад

    What I don’t understand is WHY people are like this

  • @RyukShinyApple
    @RyukShinyApple 6 часов назад

    I’m so glad I found your channel ❤

  • @robbingcars9140
    @robbingcars9140 37 минут назад

    My aunt (a college professor) told me my grades weren’t good enough to go to grad school. I’m now on my second master’s degree

  • @SMinerva22
    @SMinerva22 11 часов назад +5

    Love love love love

  • @TravelwithJPY
    @TravelwithJPY 2 часа назад +1

    Love you ❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much for giving back me my power ❤❤❤

  • @kayvee-u4j
    @kayvee-u4j 9 часов назад +2

    i love the black and yellow combo❤

    • @pearlieee
      @pearlieee  9 часов назад +1

      thank you lovely💙💙

  • @Sydonie-po8iq
    @Sydonie-po8iq 9 часов назад +3

    Amennnn!!!!!!

  • @Artysta_Zycia
    @Artysta_Zycia 10 часов назад +2

    Thank you! Very good and true talk 😊❤

    • @pearlieee
      @pearlieee  10 часов назад

      Glad you think so!✨💙

  • @lorrainehoskins2433
    @lorrainehoskins2433 11 часов назад +3

    ❤Real words 😢Amen 🙏

    • @pearlieee
      @pearlieee  11 часов назад

      glad it resonated ✨💙

  • @austincaruso7596
    @austincaruso7596 2 часа назад

    New here, thank you for your deep truths!! Just subbed

  • @dabajagne8872
    @dabajagne8872 7 часов назад

    You speak life. It really hits hard . Happy I found your channel. Thank you. ❤

    • @pearlieee
      @pearlieee  7 часов назад +1

      glad to have you here💙

  • @midheaven_mimi
    @midheaven_mimi 9 часов назад

    Your messages and the passion with which you deliver them are AMAZING!! Keep going sis! ❤

    • @pearlieee
      @pearlieee  9 часов назад +1

      Will do! Thank you💙✨💙

  • @franciscamoramira9929
    @franciscamoramira9929 8 часов назад +1

    I love you! ❤️ you are fierce

    • @pearlieee
      @pearlieee  8 часов назад

      thank you lovely🥹🫶🏽

  • @PepsiT98
    @PepsiT98 11 часов назад +1

    Well, i will say, that things really depend. Sometimes you need to trust your gut & make a decision regardless of other opinions of ppl who do NOT love you. But other times, there are ppl who love you who have more experience/wisdom about a certain situation & you’ll be grateful if you take their advice rather than your own. It all depends.

    • @pearlieee
      @pearlieee  11 часов назад +2

      You’re so right, the people who truly love you won’t want you stuck in insecurity. Thank you so much for watching! ✨☺️

  • @motso-talks8002
    @motso-talks8002 Час назад

    Girl you so annoying for telling us the truth😂🙆🤦
    I love you so much!!!

  • @scarletassasins218
    @scarletassasins218 9 часов назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @pearlieee
      @pearlieee  9 часов назад +1

      💙💙💙💙💙