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Hearing her son cry out, "I have NO ONE!" BROKE. MY. HEART. I wish, I myself, could be there for them. This boy is WORKING, doing the RIGHT THING and THIS is what he gets!?
Yeah you think it's easy having life throw you never ending curve balls? I work like I'm rich and am broke as a joke. I'm 30 now man, life ain't always fair
@@Code_Rapper I feel you bro my mom has had a terrible addiction problem for about 10 years now. Im the oldest of 6 currently 25 and I do everything for the 4 that are still to young. I probably wont be able to get a full time job until 30 meaning i will be behind in every aspect compared to my friends. But I rather do it then watch them get taken away by CPS and watch my dad slip into depression. Stay strong Bro shit will get easier for both of us eventually!
@@laurastewart0526 the terra in her eyes while she talked to the police told me everything I needed to know he is a menace to society, and I am proud of this woman for risking so much even herself. It’s pretty much get justice and put her brother away even being terrified and afraid I feel for her and her family and the victims family specially, her children they cry out from her child. I hurt my feelings.
In Minnesota where it occurred, the minimum for 2nd degree murder is 12 and 1/2 years for a first time offender. I don't know if he was one or if there were any other aggravating factors, but he seemed to serve almost the minimum. Minnesota tends to be on the lenient side as far as sentences go, but in some countries that would be the sentence for 1st degree murder - so at least we're ahead of them. I think partners should do a background check. I have no idea if she knew about his past but many people wouldn't date someone who has that on his record - especially when she started to experience DV. Perhaps she felt trapped because he supplied her habit.
@@PrestonPratt-p2dthis was my thought. Talking to someone who is distressed after you told them their mom is dead is bare fucking minimum. You can’t at least let him have this conversation somewhere more private?
The male detective did an excellent job at explaining to that young man that setting a boundary, especially with an addict, is not pushing someone away, it’s protecting your peace.
And at the same time getting information that is needed Sometimes they are pushy or kind of heartless but this dude really nailed it in the aspect of relating to this boy and talking thru a life changing moment, but also getting some info on his mom so he can help solve the case 🖤🙏
It will legitimately change the course of that kid's grief and suffering, maybe even save him from a harder life. Altered his life course. Loss of a close loved young at a young age is life-shattering. The right stuff early makes a difference. Props.
Yea but that’s only great when the person lives and get themselves together. You will live with it forever if they don’t. Trust me, that’s not a place anyone wants to be. I would have given up a TON more of my peace to get my best friend back.
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Yeah cz he felt so guilty about that. I’m sure she was trying to get money from him since he was working but he did the right thing, keeping a little distance
She was always nice. She was my manager at McDonald's when I was in High School. Mustafa was nice to me, and I got along with him, but he was a bad kid since elementary school.
@@CaesarCapone A relative of mine works at a zoo. He once described a baboon he tended to in a similar manner. Point is, don't trust them, do avoid relationships with them
@@chrishayes5755 I know! so frustrating to watch. The way he instantly says "you know we can't arrest him just because of what you said", altough you can clearly see on her face that the situation is very serious and needs to be further investigated. Her distress is obvious. They also did a pretty bad job all around protecting her from her brother.
That cop was incredible for telling the son that it wasn't wrong to distance himself from his mother because of her destructive behavior and that he shouldn't feel guilty. I know he needed to hear that.
Are all Americans this clueless about how criminal prosecution and sentencing works? The judge typically follows established sentencing guidelines. Blame the killer.
You just don't understand how the criminal process works in Minnesota. Minnesota uses determinate sentencing. Under this system, there is no parole board and no time off for good behavior. Individuals serve two-thirds of their prison sentence incarcerated and the remaining third on supervised release. I know it said parole in the video, but he wasn't on parole he was on supervised release. It's basically the same thing, but it's a standard part of a sentence in Minnesota. Starting from the beginning: In Minnesota, the maximum sentence for unintentional second-degree murder is 40 years and there is no minimum sentence so theoretically someone could get no jail time, but the recommended sentencing guidelines suggest 12+1⁄2 years for a first-time offender. The judge sentenced him to 21 years for the 2006 murder. He was released from prison on supervised release after serving ~14 years of his 21 year sentence as he was supposed to be. He would have remained on supervised release for the next 7 years unless he violated the conditions. Sadly that violation came in the form of a murder. Is 14 years in prison too light for unintentional second-degree murder? Does the extra 7 years of supervised release change that at all? These are questions that only you can answer for yourself, but the judge didn't do anything wrong. The only thing you could accuse him of is giving too lenient of a sentence. But just as he could have given more time he could have given less. I don't think this was this guys first offense, but assuming it was the judge went over the recommended guidelines by 8.5 years.
To the son in the video I hope you read this: When I was 13 my father died during a home invasion while I helplessly watched and my mother passed away in a car crash 4 months later, just before my birthday. When I was told that information about my mom all I could think about is “What am I going to do?” Im now 38 and I have an amazing 3 year old boy, beautiful fiancée, a house, and a great career. Time heals all and God is great. Hang in there, use this pain to fuel you, don’t let this define you. If I can do it, anyone can. You got this 💪🏾
I'm a 43 year old grown man. When that young man started wailing when he found out his mom died I started crying. That poor kid. The pain in his voice is insurmountable.
That poor boy thought a customer walked in not knowing his life was about to change forever. Poor sweetheart, where ever they are, i hope they're both ok ❤❤❤❤
It ripped my heart out to see that young man so distraught. His Dad was dead and now his Mom. When he said "I have nobody", it crushed me. I do hope he's doing okay.
When they notified the son, my eyes just started burning, instant tears.. I feel so terrible for him & I hope he feels no guilt for loving her from a distance because of her struggles with addiction. Poor baby 💔 separately, I can’t imagine how awful & painful it must be to be the person tasked with making the death notification. It must be so dreadful, bracing yourself for impact & witnessing the immediate, visceral reaction to the death of their loved one. I’m so thankful for the empathy the officer had for the woman’s son, and for encouraging him not to blame himself for having boundaries with his mother❤
“What do I tell my little brother” absolutely broke me, having 2 younger brothers myself I can’t even imagine being in that scenario.. I hope they all find peace and happiness in time 😔
I was so in tears at the "healthy boundaries" talk and words of encouragement the Officer shared with the son. Warmed my heart. We have some true Heroes out here, which is why I love Midwest Crime's content.
The judges letting these murderers out need to be held accountable. This could've been easily avoided if he remained in prison for life the first time.
Everyday through my mom’s addiction I always thought I’d hear these words from officers. I am so thankful to have my mom. This young man is so strong. I am 24 I’ll be 25 in 4 days. I feel him. My mom died a few times from OD. I never could imagine her death being caused from the environment she found herself in. Bless his soul I hopes recovering. I understand the distancing and all the things he did to try and save himself from his mom. I did that too and that’s when I was most scared to find out about something so terrible.
This officer said it perfectly healthy boundaries....we'll always love who we love, but without those boundaries until they're ready to change, you'll find yourself living their life
This police officer was amazing consoling and talking to the son. Even commending him on how he’s set healthy boundaries with his mother and her substance abuse. These are the police officers we need and love! Thank you blue!
This is why I hate that they get such a bad rap because of a few a$$holes. All the adults in my life were constantly on drugs and the cops were always there when it mattered the most. Saved me and my mom from some scary situations even though she was the cause.
Yeah, the male detective did good, but the female detective not so much. Look at how she smilled to the young man, right before her partner told him his mom was dead. She seems vile, and non professional in that moment. There was nothing too smile about at all, and it boggles my mind why she did that. I feel so sorry for that young man, and hope he got the right help going forward in his young life.
These channels and the addition of police body cameras have made my perception of the police completely change, of course there are ego maniac cops but in this day and age its harder for them to run amok.
I was told you guys made this video, And on behalf of our family. You did amazing putting it together; My Brother and I's mom was an amazing soul who loved deeply. Thank you for doing justice with this documentary and putting so much effort and work into it.
Are you the one from the video?? Man I pray you're doing ok and staying clean and working hard. The fact you're so young without either parent is heartbreaking. It says a lot about you police found you at work when you have every reason to be mad at the world and fall down a dark path.
I’m 3 minutes in and I am shocked with how he started the conversation. “Hey, your mom died.” He just jumped right in and didn’t even tell him to brace himself
The cop handled it great. How he referred to his family members coming, he connected with that, saying uncle is coming and made it appear like he was part of the family.
Such a tragedy. I can feel the young man's pain the moment he walked out of the restaurant. Props to the investigator who talked to him, comforted and reassured him.
Wow the way you could tell how afraid she was of her brother and didn’t want him to hear. Good for her for turning him in even when she could’ve gotten hurt
That was the greatest in video commercial that I have ever seen. Im lit so when that truck blew up, I imagined Tom Cruise jumping out the passenger window with the seat belt in his hand and swinging down to the pavement below😂
Oh my gosh I was shocked! To go to his work and just sit him down at a table, in the public, and announce your mom died😭I understand it’s his job and he probably has had to do this many times. I just wish he would have been more compassionate since he is a child who just lost his mom. I wanted to hug him
absolutely insane. im sure they wanted to stay inside due to the weather but what a terrible way/setting to find out such harsh news. and he immediately was worried for his little brother. so unfortunate, i pray he finds peace and healing ☹️
@@warreng8976 most people when confronted with this news would ask what happened, were they shot, stabbed what happened. Would have been much more strange had he not even asked how she passed
Worst feeling ever. Had flash backs of the police showing up to announce the passing of my mom in a car accident. Then it happens again with my baby sis. Like when the police are near I get terrified. Not because I did something, but because of the bad news they deliver.....peace.....
That was absolutely gut wrenching to see and hear that young man cry about his momma. I really feel like this shouldn't be on the internet. I wish him well. This is so terrible.
😭 THIS IS BLOODY HEARD BREAKING 😭 i truly hope with my ENTIRE BEING these kids get the help they need and can find some healing together as family. LOVE AND WELNESS FROM CANADA. GOD BE WITH Y'ALL
Some people don't know. Not everyone is running background checks on people. I dated a guy that had domestic violence charges against him. I didn't know until his ex threatened to kill me
I couldn't help but feel for the son... not only because we share a name, I've also lost my dad and losing my mom would put me in the same position, caring for my disabled brother without help. This would truly be my worst nightmare. I'm glad the killer will be left in a cold, lonely environment for the rest of his life.
I lost my mother in a terrible way when I was 5. My dad got killed when I was 35. I’m 43 now and you never heal. This breaks my heart for him. I don’t know him but I just wanted to hug him and tell him I understand bro. ❤️
How kind of you to comment. Hopefully he sees this and connects with you. Not many understand this type of loss, I don't. I'm so sorry for your losses.
He was convicted of previous 2nd degree murder in 2007 and was released after 12 yrs? Why? The judge who released is responsible for this second murder . The victim is failed by Minnesota liberal court who cuddle criminals and give short sentences. This guy should have in prison for the previous murder until 2050 and the lady would have a live .
I love the detective talking to the son in the car. About setting healthy boundaries and that that's okay, it wasn't him pushing her away... was so kind to say that. I pray him and his little brother have a good, long rest of their lives together.
I lost my mom at 19 last year. I had the same issue, reaction, and pain. You can never get the answers to your questions but you’ll never stop asking them
My mom died when I was 16. It’s life changing and so hard. It will become easier to cope with as you get older but always a tragedy. I’m now in my 50s. I am sending you strength.
I’m scared she would have been next. A double murder but she did good asking to text or get a card and keep walking away with the officer. The woman and the boy who lost his mom are both smart
He felt his pain and let it out then immediately pulled himself together and gave that cop every bit of information he needed. Genuinely impressive emotional maturity.
I really feel for these two boys. He sounds very grown up for his age. Addiction is a very nasty disease. You didn't push your mum away as the great officer said it was boundaries and there's nothing wrong with that. I hope these two boys will be ok
2:42 omg this hit me hard 😢 I can’t begin to imagine the depths of heartbreak and pain those 2 are in over the loss of their momma and how she passed away. My heart and prayers go out to them and all who knew and loved her ❤️🙏🏻
When he was constantly moving around while crying ughhhh💔 I know that feeling of not knowing what to do with your body upon getting the news that your parent has passed😢 it’s like your body is numb cause your senses sort of all shut down right before you feel this very strong intense wave confusion & sadness then those waves become apart of your life forever but you get better at dealing with them..praying for him🙏🏾
My heart goes out to this young lad. All of us should stop and say a little prayer for him ,his brother and the wonderful cop. Prayers from Ireland 🇮🇪 🙏
He doing cocaine all day, drinking. Him taking a 2nd life & he still a mess. Naming your children weird names will not make them be decent ppl. He's a demon. Lucifer twin.
I could feel that guy’s pain! I was at work too when I was told my mom had died. 4 days before Christmas, so I feel very down every year during the holiday. Kudos to the cop who told the guy about his mom’s death without beating around the bush. I hope the young man finds some peace…❤
My biggest fear about dying is that my family would be in pain and suffer for it. I told my sister if I die the only thing that would help me Rest In Peace is that they would Not mourn but honor my memory with praise in our Heavenly Father, love and joy. knowing my body might be gone but I’m still living through them and will be coming again in Christ
I can’t imagine being that young, losing your Dad, your mom being a drug addict, hearing that your mom is in an abusive relationship, and then finding out her boyfriend killed her. And now you have nobody. My god, man. I hope he ends up in a loving family.
So heartbreaking to see this young man crumble at the awful news of his mom's death. He is living what would be my worst nightmare! Now, Kim's murderer should have never been released in 2020, having served only 13 years for the murder of a 25 year old young man in 2007!!
She lived a high risk lifestyle --- drugs, abusive BF, etc., to the point her own son didn't want to be around her. What happened shouldn't surprise anyone and it shouldn't be ignored. This is how these situations usually end.
So this dude got 13 years for killing somebody back in 2007??!! That’s INSANITY!! 13 f*cking years for killing an innocent person, and while he was on probation/parole!! Had he actually gotten the jail sentence he deserved, then this woman would still be alive
Hearing that young man break down, tore my heart into pieces. How could you let someone out when they already killed somebody the justice system failed her
I’ve seen some really, really messed up things, but watching someone find out their parent or child is dead will always haunt me the most. Very tough to watch.
12 yrs in prison for Mrdr 2? Nice going, parole board, he sure got his life back on track like you predicted. 2 yrs later & he did it again. Look at it this way, parole board, you've ensured we've got prison space available. Good job, hit that quota!
I watch this all the time but I did not know they were walking in that place to tell her son, I’ve never teared up so quick before hearing him cry out.
I lost both parents from drugs. I lost 4 siblings also from opiates and a set of grandparents in a fire from my grandmother falling asleep with a cigarette. That was 3 months after i lost my mother. I was 15. Im 37 now and it effected my life and still does in horrible ways. I am an extrem people pleaser. I allow things to happen just by not setting boundaries. He did the right thing as a son. I know he doesnt feel it now. But he did what was right for him.
Please get counseling! You must learn how to set boundaries! Good Lord woman, yes you have suffered but you’re still young. I don’t want you to be 67 and still letting people run you ragged. If you think you don’t have money for it many will charge you on a sliding scale and it’s the best gift you can give yourself. You are worth it! Now get going and find a counsellor. You got this!
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“My dad’s dead. My mom is gone.” Damn, I felt that. I wish this man and his little brother the best. 🙏
Damn that was so Fing sad.
Made me tear up.
He and his Mom were obviously very close.
Heartwrenching…
That's recently happened to my nephew as well two weeks ago.
@@EnchantedSmellyWolfI’m sorry to hear that
@@Bot1.0-v3 No worries. I don't have a relationship connection to them at all.
@ aw bro don’t say that but I understand
Props to that woman for turning her brother in. Wow, she is awesome
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Muslims are peaceful
Yeah, she was obviously afraid of him, she knows what he's capable of.
Yes. His sister looks haunted - in shock, even. 💔
Dude had been dealing trauma all around for a long time.
She seemed so scared, or she just didn’t want him to know she was talking to the cops. Either way, very sad situation.
Hearing her son cry out, "I have NO ONE!" BROKE. MY. HEART. I wish, I myself, could be there for them. This boy is WORKING, doing the RIGHT THING and THIS is what he gets!?
this is among the many reasons i lost my faith
As someone who also has no one, that went through me like an arrow
Yeah you think it's easy having life throw you never ending curve balls? I work like I'm rich and am broke as a joke. I'm 30 now man, life ain't always fair
@@Code_Rapper I feel you bro my mom has had a terrible addiction problem for about 10 years now. Im the oldest of 6 currently 25 and I do everything for the 4 that are still to young. I probably wont be able to get a full time job until 30 meaning i will be behind in every aspect compared to my friends. But I rather do it then watch them get taken away by CPS and watch my dad slip into depression. Stay strong Bro shit will get easier for both of us eventually!
My god, I just broke down crying with him. CHRIST be his sheild
That detective speaking to her son about he was setting healthy boundaries for his life & he did the best for him & his brother was phenomenal
probably a dad.
He sounded very compassionate
That woman was terrified of her own brother. Speaks volume of what he was capable of.
Drunk rage is one of the worst still, until this day
definitely looked that way 😥
I was so scared while she was talking then when she said don’t say anything 😢😢
@@CapitalizedOGalcohol should be classified as a drug
@@laurastewart0526 the terra in her eyes while she talked to the police told me everything I needed to know he is a menace to society, and I am proud of this woman for risking so much even herself. It’s pretty much get justice and put her brother away even being terrified and afraid I feel for her and her family and the victims family specially, her children they cry out from her child. I hurt my feelings.
The court system is to blame. He killed someone already and only did like 13 years. That's not right
Damn straight, I don’t know how those pos live with themselves
Totally… Murder used to always mean life or the Death Penalty. Now people are allowed to do it several times like it’s no big deal
In Minnesota where it occurred, the minimum for 2nd degree murder is 12 and 1/2 years for a first time offender. I don't know if he was one or if there were any other aggravating factors, but he seemed to serve almost the minimum. Minnesota tends to be on the lenient side as far as sentences go, but in some countries that would be the sentence for 1st degree murder - so at least we're ahead of them. I think partners should do a background check. I have no idea if she knew about his past but many people wouldn't date someone who has that on his record - especially when she started to experience DV. Perhaps she felt trapped because he supplied her habit.
He got manslaughter and did the recommended time. What are you talking about 😒.
Yup, that's why no one on earth can say vengeance isn't a great idea sometimes.
That 1st officer taking the time to have a heart to heart with the young man who lost his mom was incredible. THAT is a police officer.
Yes, that was more than police training…that was true compassion 😢
He's a detective not officer but yes you're right
But why tell him at work?
@@PrestonPratt-p2dthis was my thought. Talking to someone who is distressed after you told them their mom is dead is bare fucking minimum. You can’t at least let him have this conversation somewhere more private?
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That detective talking about healthy boundaries deserves a commendation. That was beautiful, sir.
The male detective did an excellent job at explaining to that young man that setting a boundary, especially with an addict, is not pushing someone away, it’s protecting your peace.
And at the same time getting information that is needed
Sometimes they are pushy or kind of heartless but this dude really nailed it in the aspect of relating to this boy and talking thru a life changing moment, but also getting some info on his mom so he can help solve the case 🖤🙏
It will legitimately change the course of that kid's grief and suffering, maybe even save him from a harder life. Altered his life course. Loss of a close loved young at a young age is life-shattering. The right stuff early makes a difference. Props.
Yea but that’s only great when the person lives and get themselves together. You will live with it forever if they don’t. Trust me, that’s not a place anyone wants to be. I would have given up a TON more of my peace to get my best friend back.
Yeah cz he felt so guilty about that. I’m sure she was trying to get money from him since he was working but he did the right thing, keeping a little distance
It's great life advice that isn't repeated nearly enough. This detective has seen and been through some awful shit and that wisdom is just invaluable.
You can tell his sister is scared of him. This dude is dangerous
I agree
U forgot one thing tho! It’s this POS is dangerous not dude ( but I get ya ) rip to the deceased 😞
She was always nice. She was my manager at McDonald's when I was in High School. Mustafa was nice to me, and I got along with him, but he was a bad kid since elementary school.
@@CaesarCaponeyou just fkn lied.
@@CaesarCapone A relative of mine works at a zoo. He once described a baboon he tended to in a similar manner. Point is, don't trust them, do avoid relationships with them
the way he kept following the sister around to make sure she wouldn't say anything. That was scary. Midwest you guys do such good work!!
That sister is to be commended. She had enough integrity and morals to turn her brother in, something most people wouldn't do.
@@user-jo5ml8et1z What?? "Most people wouldn't turn in a family member for MURDER" ??? Speak for your own family mate. You're alone in this one
@@user-jo5ml8et1zWell, most people like her would. ❤🙏🏽
cops failed to control that situation and failed to make a proper read. that was bad.
@@chrishayes5755 I know! so frustrating to watch. The way he instantly says "you know we can't arrest him just because of what you said", altough you can clearly see on her face that the situation is very serious and needs to be further investigated. Her distress is obvious. They also did a pretty bad job all around protecting her from her brother.
That cop was incredible for telling the son that it wasn't wrong to distance himself from his mother because of her destructive behavior and that he shouldn't feel guilty. I know he needed to hear that.
The sister looked so terrified of her brother 😢
He was involved somehow
Terrified
I mean he did kill an innocent person
@@WoodyWardI'm pretty sure he is the killer.
@@WoodyWardhe was the one who murdered her
"Released on parole" for a murder before??? Put that judge in jail!
Start with the prosecutor's office, learn your civics and understand what happens and by whom long before the judge gets involved
Are all Americans this clueless about how criminal prosecution and sentencing works? The judge typically follows established sentencing guidelines. Blame the killer.
They don't want to keep the 13% in prison because it looks bad
You just don't understand how the criminal process works in Minnesota. Minnesota uses determinate sentencing. Under this system, there is no parole board and no time off for good behavior. Individuals serve two-thirds of their prison sentence incarcerated and the remaining third on supervised release. I know it said parole in the video, but he wasn't on parole he was on supervised release. It's basically the same thing, but it's a standard part of a sentence in Minnesota.
Starting from the beginning: In Minnesota, the maximum sentence for unintentional second-degree murder is 40 years and there is no minimum sentence so theoretically someone could get no jail time, but the recommended sentencing guidelines suggest 12+1⁄2 years for a first-time offender. The judge sentenced him to 21 years for the 2006 murder. He was released from prison on supervised release after serving ~14 years of his 21 year sentence as he was supposed to be. He would have remained on supervised release for the next 7 years unless he violated the conditions. Sadly that violation came in the form of a murder.
Is 14 years in prison too light for unintentional second-degree murder? Does the extra 7 years of supervised release change that at all? These are questions that only you can answer for yourself, but the judge didn't do anything wrong. The only thing you could accuse him of is giving too lenient of a sentence. But just as he could have given more time he could have given less. I don't think this was this guys first offense, but assuming it was the judge went over the recommended guidelines by 8.5 years.
@m4nap4rt20 yup. We're really good at putting the blame on everybody BUT the scumbags. We're dumb.
To the son in the video I hope you read this: When I was 13 my father died during a home invasion while I helplessly watched and my mother passed away in a car crash 4 months later, just before my birthday. When I was told that information about my mom all I could think about is “What am I going to do?” Im now 38 and I have an amazing 3 year old boy, beautiful fiancée, a house, and a great career. Time heals all and God is great. Hang in there, use this pain to fuel you, don’t let this define you. If I can do it, anyone can. You got this 💪🏾
💯❤ I will pray that God gets your message to him. God Bless you Bro
Time doesn't heal all. Time only allows for more scars.
@techlife4667 how bout you pray that God doesn't rip parents from their children?
dude tell us the story about your father, may he rest in peace knowing he died like a man for his family!
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He went to prison got out and committed violent crime again. How is that not surprising what so ever these days
I'm a 43 year old grown man. When that young man started wailing when he found out his mom died I started crying. That poor kid. The pain in his voice is insurmountable.
Same bro… im 27
Watching this young man cry for his mom broke my heart. The kinda thing that makes you wanna give a hug to stranger cuz you understand that pain.
I don’t understand that pain and hope to never have to but I agree it makes me want to show support and give a stranger a hug
Stop crying over someone you don’t even know
@@LivvyDunneFan33how about learn how to show empathy and emotion instead of acting like a stuck up asshat
His mom was railing a convicted murderer
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yo huge respect to that woman calling in on her brother, the people who say they would hide a body for their family scare the hell out of me.
depends on circumstance.
@Refertech101 I came here to say this. It also only applies to my children. My siblings can kick rocks!
@FBI might wanna check the basement's of this guy's relatives.@Refertech101
@Refertech101 agreed, circumstances are everything.
those who would turn their family in scare the hell outta me.
Man one of the first things that kid thought of was how he was going to tell his brother.
That poor boy thought a customer walked in not knowing his life was about to change forever.
Poor sweetheart, where ever they are, i hope they're both ok ❤❤❤❤
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It's crazy when you loose both you're parents but being told like this is very sad hope the young man remains strong 🙏
It's all a part of life, ladies. Don't get your panties in a bunch 😂😂😂
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It was nice how the cop really tried helping the young man out with his kind words. I hope him and his little brother find nothing but the best.
It ripped my heart out to see that young man so distraught. His Dad was dead and now his Mom. When he said "I have nobody", it crushed me. I do hope he's doing okay.
At least he has his little brother and hopefully more extended family. He warned his mother to stay away from that terrible colored man.
When they notified the son, my eyes just started burning, instant tears.. I feel so terrible for him & I hope he feels no guilt for loving her from a distance because of her struggles with addiction. Poor baby 💔 separately, I can’t imagine how awful & painful it must be to be the person tasked with making the death notification. It must be so dreadful, bracing yourself for impact & witnessing the immediate, visceral reaction to the death of their loved one. I’m so thankful for the empathy the officer had for the woman’s son, and for encouraging him not to blame himself for having boundaries with his mother❤
“What do I tell my little brother” absolutely broke me, having 2 younger brothers myself I can’t even imagine being in that scenario.. I hope they all find peace and happiness in time 😔
And the utmost respect to his family because it is not easy to turn in someone you love. ✊
I was so in tears at the "healthy boundaries" talk and words of encouragement the Officer shared with the son. Warmed my heart. We have some true Heroes out here, which is why I love Midwest Crime's content.
Midwest Crime channel is the best body cam channel on RUclips. Their editing is awesome.
thanks :) always trying to improve
The judges letting these murderers out need to be held accountable. This could've been easily avoided if he remained in prison for life the first time.
Vote those judges out!
Judges? You're part of the problem, yet you want to hide in the YT comments section to try and pretend to be a good person.
Ikr? Ive been wondering my whole life why would they ever let abusive people out
If anyone were to break into a zoo, and release the primates, that would create a danger to the public and is an obvious crime
he a good boy you just racist
Everyday through my mom’s addiction I always thought I’d hear these words from officers. I am so thankful to have my mom. This young man is so strong. I am 24 I’ll be 25 in 4 days. I feel him. My mom died a few times from OD. I never could imagine her death being caused from the environment she found herself in. Bless his soul I hopes recovering. I understand the distancing and all the things he did to try and save himself from his mom. I did that too and that’s when I was most scared to find out about something so terrible.
This officer said it perfectly healthy boundaries....we'll always love who we love, but without those boundaries until they're ready to change, you'll find yourself living their life
Yes! 💜 Made me cry. That was such a needed convo. Props to that officer.
This police officer was amazing consoling and talking to the son. Even commending him on how he’s set healthy boundaries with his mother and her substance abuse. These are the police officers we need and love! Thank you blue!
This is why I hate that they get such a bad rap because of a few a$$holes. All the adults in my life were constantly on drugs and the cops were always there when it mattered the most. Saved me and my mom from some scary situations even though she was the cause.
Yeah, the male detective did good, but the female detective not so much. Look at how she smilled to the young man, right before her partner told him his mom was dead. She seems vile, and non professional in that moment. There was nothing too smile about at all, and it boggles my mind why she did that. I feel so sorry for that young man, and hope he got the right help going forward in his young life.
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Idk about that why couldn’t he have brought him outside first instead of telling him inside the facility with other coworkers
These channels and the addition of police body cameras have made my perception of the police completely change, of course there are ego maniac cops but in this day and age its harder for them to run amok.
I was told you guys made this video, And on behalf of our family. You did amazing putting it together; My Brother and I's mom was an amazing soul who loved deeply. Thank you for doing justice with this documentary and putting so much effort and work into it.
Is there a go fund me ? We can support ?
Sorry for your loss
Are you the one from the video?? Man I pray you're doing ok and staying clean and working hard. The fact you're so young without either parent is heartbreaking.
It says a lot about you police found you at work when you have every reason to be mad at the world and fall down a dark path.
I’m so sorry I wish I can help you how can we contact you? What’s your ig?
Don't ever give up. God bless y'all.
He deserves life in prison without the possibility of parole.
Proud of the family coming forward and helping solve this case. That takes a lot of courage and morality. Not every family would do that.
Especially since most families today cry and whine how their murderer son is such a good boy who does nothing wrong.
Bro, this cop was actually excellent in how he handled the situation.
I’m 3 minutes in and I am shocked with how he started the conversation. “Hey, your mom died.” He just jumped right in and didn’t even tell him to brace himself
@@xHiiTMalRk3rzx right cuz that would helped
@@xHiiTMalRk3rzxright , I hate how he quickly went into it.
I fell in love I’m gay now
The cop handled it great. How he referred to his family members coming, he connected with that, saying uncle is coming and made it appear like he was part of the family.
Such a tragedy. I can feel the young man's pain the moment he walked out of the restaurant. Props to the investigator who talked to him, comforted and reassured him.
Foreal and man is just working contributing to society while all his family are dead and into crime and drugs
man my heart ripped the moment they told bro his mom died and he broke. That cop gave him some solid consolidation too. props on him.
That woman looked absolutely terrified of her brother. That was pure fear in her eyes.
It’s hard for me to cry, but when I heard this young boy crying for his mom saying he has nobody else, tears started flowing 😢
Same
I've never wanted to hug a stranger more. That poor kid, I hope he is surrounded by people who love him.
I lost both of my parents , months apart. It’s an indescribable pain. I feel so sorry for him. Life can be so cruel .
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Me too, mine died 7 weeks apart. This poor child I feel so horrible for him😢
Both of my managers lost their father's on their birthdays. The world can be cruel af, but that's heartless.
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My dad died in August 2024, Mom died December 2024. I’m so lost and empty.
man this had me in tears 😭 as a mother i honestly think about my children before I put myself in any situation… I pray 🙏🏽 God protects her children
That young man brought me to tears. There are certain people we should do without. And the killer is one.
Anyone else wanted to reach out and give this young man a hug and just hold him tight. This poor kid & his lil brother. God Bless
Wow the way you could tell how afraid she was of her brother and didn’t want him to hear. Good for her for turning him in even when she could’ve gotten hurt
That was the greatest in video commercial that I have ever seen. Im lit so when that truck blew up, I imagined Tom Cruise jumping out the passenger window with the seat belt in his hand and swinging down to the pavement below😂
This kid has me in tears. This officer is doing a great job talking to him.
My mother was an absent drug addict and my heart goes out to these kids.
Im 5years clean
@@RyGuyxxyy keep up the good work
The way he broke it to him that his mom is gone is crazy. He told him like he already knew. Omg I feel so bad for him and his little brother
Oh my gosh I was shocked! To go to his work and just sit him down at a table, in the public, and announce your mom died😭I understand it’s his job and he probably has had to do this many times. I just wish he would have been more compassionate since he is a child who just lost his mom. I wanted to hug him
absolutely insane. im sure they wanted to stay inside due to the weather but what a terrible way/setting to find out such harsh news. and he immediately was worried for his little brother. so unfortunate, i pray he finds peace and healing ☹️
I don't know why they didn't wait for family members to tell him😢
But why did he ask if it was a gun shot wound ? Bit specific.
@@warreng8976 most people when confronted with this news would ask what happened, were they shot, stabbed what happened. Would have been much more strange had he not even asked how she passed
12:25 the way he waddles out of the store LOL
Hearing him cry is heartbreaking. He seems like a really good kid. I hate life sometimes.
You have to make the best of life. A pretty rainbow comes from hard rain.
Worst feeling ever. Had flash backs of the police showing up to announce the passing of my mom in a car accident. Then it happens again with my baby sis. Like when the police are near I get terrified. Not because I did something, but because of the bad
news they deliver.....peace.....
Kinda makes you ponder that they used to wear blue, and now they wear all-black!!!!
That was absolutely gut wrenching to see and hear that young man cry about his momma. I really feel like this shouldn't be on the internet. I wish him well. This is so terrible.
😭 THIS IS BLOODY HEARD BREAKING 😭 i truly hope with my ENTIRE BEING these kids get the help they need and can find some healing together as family. LOVE AND WELNESS FROM CANADA. GOD BE WITH Y'ALL
He really lost his mom twice; First to drugs, and then to death. My heart breaks for that young man.
His sister's body language whilst he was talking to the cops spoke volumes
Dating a man with a prior murder conviciton...yikes.
Just got out after serving 13 years, murdered again not even 2 years later. Loser
And a Mustapha.... All matches boxes.
Some people don't know. Not everyone is running background checks on people. I dated a guy that had domestic violence charges against him. I didn't know until his ex threatened to kill me
All of a sudden she's an innocent victim. At some point she thought this beast was a good choice.
@@frankreynolds9418ok and? Sh might a picked this dude , but it doesnt mean, she knew he would have turn around and did this.
I couldn't help but feel for the son... not only because we share a name, I've also lost my dad and losing my mom would put me in the same position, caring for my disabled brother without help.
This would truly be my worst nightmare. I'm glad the killer will be left in a cold, lonely environment for the rest of his life.
I've lost my mom, dad, and just lost my sister on 12-26, so I feel this kids pain. Sucks having no one.
Sorry man
so sorry
Same here. Mom, Dad and sister. Sorry for your losses.
Sorry for your losses. It sucks.
I lost my parents and my brother. It really sucks! I hope you're able to find some peace one day ❤
that poor, poor boy. I know how he feels about making boundaries with loved ones with addiction. I can't imagine his heartbreak.
I lost my mother in a terrible way when I was 5. My dad got killed when I was 35. I’m 43 now and you never heal. This breaks my heart for him. I don’t know him but I just wanted to hug him and tell him I understand bro. ❤️
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❤❤❤… I truly feel your pain
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How kind of you to comment. Hopefully he sees this and connects with you. Not many understand this type of loss, I don't. I'm so sorry for your losses.
He was convicted of previous 2nd degree murder in 2007 and was released after 12 yrs? Why?
The judge who released is responsible for this second murder . The victim is failed by Minnesota liberal court who cuddle criminals and give short sentences. This guy should have in prison for the previous murder until 2050 and the lady would have a live .
I love the detective talking to the son in the car. About setting healthy boundaries and that that's okay, it wasn't him pushing her away... was so kind to say that. I pray him and his little brother have a good, long rest of their lives together.
I hope this young man gets the help and support he needs. I can't even imagine being alone taking care of a sibling. Rip to his mom.
When you’re young like this guy, life’s hard enough with parents, can’t imagine no parents , God bless him.
And he’s trying he’s working and cares for his little brother 😭 he deserves the world but the world keeps taking everyone from him
Who trains these people when it comes to letting people know that their loved ones have passed ? Because this is NOT IT!!!!!
The sound of him crying struck me to the core man. As a grown man that made me appreciate my mother a thousand times more. So sorry for this man.
I lost my mom at 19 last year. I had the same issue, reaction, and pain. You can never get the answers to your questions but you’ll never stop asking them
😢...that's awful. Hope you're doing OK ❤
Sorry for your loss. 19 is so young to experience that pain.
You are loved ❤
My mom died when I was 16. It’s life changing and so hard. It will become easier to cope with as you get older but always a tragedy. I’m now in my 50s. I am sending you strength.
10:33 that PoS saw them talking and walked over to them.. she looks utterly terrified of him
I’m scared she would have been next. A double murder but she did good asking to text or get a card and keep walking away with the officer. The woman and the boy who lost his mom are both smart
i came to the comments to see if anyone else noticed this too.
This man is stronger than most. What a mature young man. God bless you bro
Wow the dude is stalking his sister while she is trying to talk to police😮
Straight weirdo . She would definitely be next!
He felt his pain and let it out then immediately pulled himself together and gave that cop every bit of information he needed. Genuinely impressive emotional maturity.
I really feel for these two boys. He sounds very grown up for his age. Addiction is a very nasty disease. You didn't push your mum away as the great officer said it was boundaries and there's nothing wrong with that. I hope these two boys will be ok
2:42 omg this hit me hard 😢 I can’t begin to imagine the depths of heartbreak and pain those 2 are in over the loss of their momma and how she passed away. My heart and prayers go out to them and all who knew and loved her ❤️🙏🏻
Thank you for showing the raw impact on the victims family.
I can’t imagine how heartbreaking it is for the cops too: takes a special person. 👍
thanks for your generosity 💜
When he was constantly moving around while crying ughhhh💔 I know that feeling of not knowing what to do with your body upon getting the news that your parent has passed😢 it’s like your body is numb cause your senses sort of all shut down right before you feel this very strong intense wave confusion & sadness then those waves become apart of your life forever but you get better at dealing with them..praying for him🙏🏾
My heart goes out to this young lad. All of us should stop and say a little prayer for him ,his brother and the wonderful cop. Prayers from Ireland 🇮🇪 🙏
Lost my mom to DV when I was a kid. I’ll never forget when the cops told me.. I feel her son’s pain!
He killed somebody yet. He was out on the streets at age 39.
It’s Minnesota
That's the justice system for ya 😢
Absolutely insane.
He doing cocaine all day, drinking. Him taking a 2nd life & he still a mess. Naming your children weird names will not make them be decent ppl. He's a demon. Lucifer twin.
I could feel that guy’s pain! I was at work too when I was told my mom had died. 4 days before Christmas, so I feel very down every year during the holiday. Kudos to the cop who told the guy about his mom’s death without beating around the bush. I hope the young man finds some peace…❤
My condolences to your loss ❤🙏🏽
Praying for your healing during difficult times.
My biggest fear about dying is that my family would be in pain and suffer for it. I told my sister if I die the only thing that would help me Rest In Peace is that they would Not mourn but honor my memory with praise in our Heavenly Father, love and joy. knowing my body might be gone but I’m still living through them and will be coming again in Christ
I can’t imagine being that young, losing your Dad, your mom being a drug addict, hearing that your mom is in an abusive relationship, and then finding out her boyfriend killed her. And now you have nobody. My god, man. I hope he ends up in a loving family.
8:11 she looks terrified of him. She wants him to go to jail but terrified of him knowing that she said this to the police.
This was so heartbreaking. The pain her son felt tore me up!! On behalf of all mom’s we are rooting for you and your brother sweetheart!! 🫶
Does he have a go fund me account?
So heartbreaking to see this young man crumble at the awful news of his mom's death. He is living what would be my worst nightmare! Now, Kim's murderer should have never been released in 2020, having served only 13 years for the murder of a 25 year old young man in 2007!!
She lived a high risk lifestyle --- drugs, abusive BF, etc., to the point her own son didn't want to be around her. What happened shouldn't surprise anyone and it shouldn't be ignored. This is how these situations usually end.
@@user-jo5ml8et1zYou're unfortunately correct... Doesn't hurt any less, though. Poor kid.
Keep voting blue no matter who💙 it’s working
@YxYzYx this isn't political go away
@@YxYzYxXD
So this dude got 13 years for killing somebody back in 2007??!! That’s INSANITY!! 13 f*cking years for killing an innocent person, and while he was on probation/parole!! Had he actually gotten the jail sentence he deserved, then this woman would still be alive
Welcome to NY
@@Mr_MeowingtonsMINNESOTA
Coulda, woulda, shoulda.
Welcome to life.
Welcome to America@@christopherterrell9013
It's not what you know, but what you can prove beyond a reasonable doubt, in court
"dog when the cop walks up to the car"
dog: what's this,
dog:😑
dog:👃
dog:clear.
:P
Boards should be liable and face prosecution when someone gets paroled and reoffends.
1000%
If wehad more prisons this wouldn't b an issue
@@XboxKat420or stop sending non violents to prison
Yes!! I wish this was a thing
A man just got out early on parole after killing someone drinking and driving then turned around and killed my mom while drinking and driving
Hearing that young man break down, tore my heart into pieces. How could you let someone out when they already killed somebody the justice system failed her
I’ve seen some really, really messed up things, but watching someone find out their parent or child is dead will always haunt me the most. Very tough to watch.
that part should not have been made public
Released on parole after already killing a 25-year-old man, a joke
Oh my goodness 😭 That killed me when her son broke down, and then to find out his dad is gone too😭
No child should have to go through that
Thats not how u use that emoji 😢 is what ur looking for
Ur implying that ur laughing while crying from laughing
It broke my heart hearing that poor young guy when the police told him that his mother was gone. Just wanted to give him a hug.
Feel terrible for that kid. Awful
The pain in that poor kids voice and soul was heart breaking. I cant imagine the pain he must have been and is feeling.😢
That officer talking to the son, that is exemplary police work. That is a good man and a great officer. Poor kids, praying for them.
He was investigating him, not trying to help him.
12 yrs in prison for Mrdr 2? Nice going, parole board, he sure got his life back on track like you predicted. 2 yrs later & he did it again. Look at it this way, parole board, you've ensured we've got prison space available. Good job, hit that quota!
He must have a boyfriend in there you would think after 12 years he wouldn’t want to go back …
"Too be fair he is a med student...."
I watch this all the time but I did not know they were walking in that place to tell her son, I’ve never teared up so quick before hearing him cry out.
So sad and for nothing but loss and misery. Why can't people just go their separate ways if they can't get along???
This broke my heart. Life is just so cruel. I pray these children get help from professionals.
“It’s gonna be her birthday!”…my heart man😢
I lost both parents from drugs. I lost 4 siblings also from opiates and a set of grandparents in a fire from my grandmother falling asleep with a cigarette. That was 3 months after i lost my mother. I was 15. Im 37 now and it effected my life and still does in horrible ways. I am an extrem people pleaser. I allow things to happen just by not setting boundaries. He did the right thing as a son. I know he doesnt feel it now. But he did what was right for him.
Please get counseling! You must learn how to set boundaries! Good Lord woman, yes you have suffered but you’re still young. I don’t want you to be 67 and still letting people run you ragged. If you think you don’t have money for it many will charge you on a sliding scale and it’s the best gift you can give yourself. You are worth it! Now get going and find a counsellor. You got this!
Oh my I’m sorry 🙏🏿